Salaam & Hello, I’m LaYinka!
As a dream-driven woman who was once buried beneath my labels, I know what it’s like to go for a surface-level quick ‘fix’. It doesn’t last long, and you feel frustrated and stuck.
You’ve been there, right? And it sucks.
The good news is that there’s a better solution.
As a qualified Self-Transformation Expert, I support you on your transformational journey to reconnect with the ah-may-zing woman you really are, unearth the God-given greatness that already lies within you, and fulfil your greatest potential.
And the best part? It doesn’t take months and months of work — yasssss!
Start your journey with this complimentary training where I teach you the initial steps to root out and obliterate internal blocks in your way, regain control of your thoughts and emotions, and transform your life.
It was one day in 2014, when I was shocked by the woman I saw in my reflection. After a meltdown with my children, I stood in the bathroom and stared at myself in the mirror. Drained, empty, overwhelmed, frustrated, and lost, I hated the woman I saw. I couldn’t recognise her, and yet I knew, saw, and deeply felt how she was bringing misery, tension, and anger in her home and projecting that onto her familys.
It was ugly. And it was tiring.
Staring hard at myself in the mirror, I cried because I didn’t know how I’d allowed myself to get there. I looked at myself and asked a single question that set my heart in motion:
“LaYinka, if you died today, what would your children have to say about you?”
From the answers that came forth — passive aggressive, always shouting, harsh, negative, and complaining — I knew that I couldn’t go out with that legacy. I couldn’t carry on on that trajectory. I couldn’t carry on just pretending everything was okay — faking it and not making it. I knew something had to change before I lost the people who were important to me and before I lost everything I loved.
So I embarked on the journey to know myself, understand myself, forgive myself, embrace myself, love myself, and become a better version of myself. I focused on myself, regardless of the messiness going on in my home, because a verse in the Qur’an says:
“Indeed, God will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.”
– Quran: chapter 13, verse 11
With Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), I evolved and emerged a different woman, and became softer, kinder, and more open. I grew closer to the woman I believe God created me to be. And I love every single part of me.
Am I a finished product? Not at all. I’m always growing and learning from the tests, the highs, and all the opportunities God sends my way.
And this is why I’m the best person to support you — an ambitious, dream-driven women buried beneath your labels— because I’ve been there, I went on the journey, and I know what it’s like to get to and be on the other side.